Thoughts on the Death of John Allen Chau

I recently received the following note from a young man who genuinely loves the Lord and is passionate about the unreached. The topic is so important that I have decided to share my thoughts in a broader context.

He wrote, “Hey, Mark! I was wondering if I could get your thoughts on the young man who was recently martyred while reaching out to the Sentinese people of India (if not I’ve included a link below). I’ve seen a ton of dispute on social media between friends on God’s call, the wisdom of approaching resistant people groups, the legality of missions, etc., and I was wondering what your thoughts are on the subject?”

Here’s my reply:

I am familiar with the story. I don’t think it’s as simple as whether his actions were wise or unwise, good or bad, right or wrong. Life and ministry are complex, and there are always many factors involved in our decisions.

First, in the words of the Apostle Paul, “Who am I to judge another man’s servant?” (Rom. 14:4). We will all stand before God one day. It that moment, all of our motives will be revealed, our wise decisions offered up as a sweet-smelling sacrifice, and our unwise choices burned up in the fire of God’s knowledge and purity, and covered by his amazing grace. It is clear that this young man felt led to do what he did. In no way am I questioning his commitment. He was a courageous man who deeply loved Jesus and his mission. So, in one sense, I very much applaud his desire to obey the Great Commission no matter the cost. However, I don’t think it’s that simple. My comments here are meant to be viewed as a tool for those moving forward more than an evaluation of what he did or his mission organization endorsed.

“The bad news is that persecution and violent opposition still accompany the preaching of the good news.”

The Book of Acts is not a manual for pioneer missions, but it certainly provides us with some helpful insights. There are two realities that we must keep in balance. First, while suffering and martyrdom for the sake of the gospel were common during the First Century, it wasn’t as pervasive as it might appear in a cursory reading of Acts. We must remember that the events covered in the book span at least 30 years. These happenings were recorded to help us understand how the gospel spread from Jerusalem to Rome, and how a group of diverse, self-oriented men of no standing, once filled with the Spirit, could turn the world upside down. However, here is the hard reality that we must also embrace. Of all of the proclamation events recorded in the Book of Acts, all but three were accompanied by violent opposition. The apostolic preaching of the cross is inseparable from suffering. So, while the church did not live under constant threat of extermination due to persecution, those called and equipped to plant the church where it did not exist fully understood that theirs was a dangerous task—one which they willingly embraced. Nothing has changed. The bad news is that persecution and violent opposition still accompany the preaching of the good news. And, we must be willing to own this reality if we are going to see the church planted among the unreached.

It seems pretty clear that John Allen Chau was not only familiar with our apostolic history but also wanted to join himself to their early efforts to make disciples of all peoples. Like the Apostle Paul, this young man was full of zeal to see the gospel preached where it had never been. The best approach is one that joins wisdom and zeal together. I love the way Paul retained his zeal while still being willing to listen to others. It’s a good approach for all of us. It isn’t one or the other. Zeal and wisdom do not have to be paradoxical. When yoked together, they strengthen one’s approach and increase the chances of success. We see what could have been an unwise expression of Paul’s zeal in Acts 19. Paul desperately wanted to enter the theater in order to speak to the crowd. However, his traveling companions and the local believers asked him to refrain. He submitted to their request, the riot ceased, and the group was actually exonerated. Only God knows what would have happened had Paul ignored the counsel of his friends, but it isn’t hard to believe that Paul would have been harmed, and even more importantly, the work of the Lord negatively impacted.

Second, we don’t fear death, but neither do we pursue it. We are willing to embrace suffering when it is unavoidable, but we need to understand that there is nothing noble about suffering in and of itself. Paul took a beating when his Roman citizenship was of no value, but when it protected him, he was quick to use it to avoid suffering unnecessarily.

Third, the “call of God” is complex. Yes, there is that necessary part of “God said….” However, there is more to it than that.

Are you familiar with the Fisher-Price stackable rings that toddlers use to improve their manual dexterity? The rings have to go on in a particular order, largest to smallest, or they won’t work. So, with that in mind, I like to think of God’s calling like this.

The bottom ring is God’s word to me. It is foundational and highly personal, but it requires confirmation.

The next ring is the “It seems good to ‘us’ and to the Holy Spirit” ring. We find this statement several times in the Book of Acts. Acts 16 is an example of this. Paul felt led to go to Asia, but he couldn’t get in. At this point, he sees a dream. Paul apparently submitted his dream to the group, because they responded with, “Yes, this seems like something the Lord wants us to do.” It seems that if they had said no, Paul would have listened. This example also validates a team approach as it relates to frontier missions.

The next ring includes endorsement from the greater body of Christ. Today we would call this the mission agency. In Paul’s day, it was the apostles in Jerusalem.

The next ring is the practical ability to get there. In our case, this would be getting our budget raised. I think this step should also include initial training in the missionary task. Most long-term missionaries are well trained before heading to the field. Likewise, they continue to receive training while on the field—many going on to complete graduate programs in cross-cultural communications, anthropology, and subjects that will assist their efforts to serve the people to whom they are called.

Lastly, there is the ability to get into the country. A “no” isn’t final. It may merely mean not now.

If all of these “rings” line up, then I would say it is the Lord’s will to move forward now. If not, then I would encourage a humble approach that continues to seek God’s will while doing what I can do at the moment–casting vision, garnering prayer support, continued studies in linguistics and missiology, etc.

These are complicated issues, and only God has all the pieces. We will trust the Lord and pray that this man’s death will somehow bring glory to Jesus and a greater awareness of the unreached that will turn into increased prayer and future missionaries.

Now concerning the “legality” of missions–this is a tougher one. As kingdom people, we should be the best possible citizens. Only when the government is asking us to do something that is contrary to Scripture should we defy the law. The apostles said, “We must obey God rather than man.” However, Paul even saw value in pagan governments. So, we strive to obey God and man. Only when it is clear that we can’t do both do we draw that line in the sand.

John Allen Chau was part of a missions group. I don’t know anything about it, but he may very well have submitted his calling to them, and they said go. I have no reason to critique or criticize this group or their actions. The early church deacon, Stephen, was probably a young man full of zeal. Was his death necessary? That isn’t a question for us. What we do know is that God was glorified, and he used it to compel the church to leave Jerusalem–something that they had been unwilling to do before this. It is not my place to judge. We can do everything “right,” and God may still choose to add one more person to that group of martyrs in Revelation 6 whose souls dwell under the altar of God. As this young man wrote in his journal, Soli Deo Gloria!

As a side note, I am concerned about the social media dialogue taking place around this topic. It is likely that this young man’s family has or will eventually see some of this, and some of it could be very hurtful to them. It is clear from the short statement released by the missions organization with which he was associated that his family was supportive of their son and proud of the man he was—for good reason.

One final thought. From the world’s perspective, missionaries are often thought of as being culturally insensitive at best. This idea is present in much of what has appeared in the media concerning this event. There is even a significant voice in the church that while not necessarily criticizing the missionary task or those who carry it out, ponders the wisdom of taking the gospel to dangerous places. Many lament the “wasted potential” of this young man. As I have read these comments, I think back on the deaths of Jim Elliot, Pete Fleming, Ed McCully, Nate Saint, and Roger Youderian, five young husbands and fathers who gave up their lives to evangelize the Auca (Huaorani) people of Ecuador in the 1950s. Elliot’s journal reflects the same zeal as Chau’s, though written in the language of another generation. Life Magazine positively reported the story of these five martyrs in a January 1956 edition of their magazine. Chau has been criticized and mocked. Yes, there were differences in the approaches surrounding these two events. However, the most significant difference is the cultural shift that has occurred in America. No. The 1950s weren’t the good old days. It was a time when racism was systemic and rampant in parts of America. We need to continue in our efforts to right the wrongs of our society, so I’m not suggesting that we turn back the clock. Nevertheless, what I am suggesting here is that the real provocation is the idea of necessary conversion. It is understandable that non-Christians would oppose the long-held view of Christians that salvation comes through Jesus—and him alone. Christianity is both inclusive (“whosoever will”) and exclusive (“no other name under heaven by which we must be saved”). When we get this balance right, we are loving of those who disagree with us while allowing that love to motivate us to preach Jesus to them—the only lasting hope for humankind. If we believe this, we must be willing to pay any price—even the scorn of those whose opinions we value.

We must all remember that death is not final for those who are in Christ. “But whatever was gain to me, I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead.”

Maranatha!

Pursuing One’s Wife

A sharp young man we know is getting married soon. He’s the kind of guy who takes the right things seriously. In light of that, he asked me the following question. “As I’m getting closer to marriage, I want to ask how you pursue Amy with your busy travel schedule. Also, how has this evolved from the beginning until now?” Here is my reply. Maybe it will help some other young (or not so young) man out there. Spoiler alert: I make it clear that I haven’t always done this well, but I’m trying to get better at it.

“After thinking about and praying over your questions for a few days, here are a few thoughts. There’s nothing profound here, but it’s at least gives you some insight into my flawed efforts to pursue the one I love.

I have always wanted to pursue Amy, though I have done it better at times than others. I wish had made her feel special at the beginning of our marriage the way I try to do today. Regret is a wasted emotion, but if my failures help young men like you—then Jesus can be glorified through my stupidity!

So here are a few thoughts. I did some of these well. Others–not so much!

1. Intentional time spent together with no agenda—time spent walking, talking, asking questions, listening–in short, making her feel valued and valuable.
2. Pray over and practice the lists of 1 Corinthians 13 and the Fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) in your marriage.

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13:4-7‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things, there is no law.”
‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5:22-23‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Here’s an example of what I mean.

‘Lord, help me to be patient with and kind to Amy. I can be impatient, and when I get that way, I drift away from kindness. May I be quick to seek forgiveness from you and her when that happens. Keep me away from a competitive spirit with her. Help me to be her biggest fan, advocate and fiercest defender. Help me to serve her in ways where my service adds value to her. Show me how to do this. Help me to treat her in private the way I want people whose respect I desire to see me treat her in public. Help me to speak the truth to build her up, and if I ever need to bring correction, help me do so in a way that demonstrates my own need for growth and forgiveness. And, may I be more concerned about hearing the truth than speaking it.

She’s broken Lord, but no more than me. We came into marriage as two broken people, and that hasn’t changed. We simply know each other’s areas of weakness more now than we did in the beginning. Help me to treat her the way I want to be treated. The world will do enough to beat her down. Help me to be there to protect her and lift her up. Help me to love her and live in a way that inspires respect in her. May love and laughter always be present in both our home and our relationship, and may laughter be a constant indicator of your love at work in our lives.

Make our home a place of peace from the storms of life, and when they come, may we always find ourselves striving to ‘save’ the other. Help me to be kind, and protect me from a judgmental spirit that sees her weaknesses but is oblivious to mine. I want to be good to her. Help me be a student of Amy in such a way as to know how she interprets “goodness” and “kindness.”

Help me to always be faithful to her in my mind, heart, and body. Protect me from the sexual evils of this twisted world. Give me self-control as I resist the enemy and submit myself to you. Finally, Lord, help me to listen more than I talk. Help me to draw out the deep thoughts I knew were there when I was first attracted to Amy. Be glorified in our marriage. Amen.’

3. Have fun together. This is easier before having kids, but make it a priority.
4. Keep the dialogue open at all times. View important conversations as an ongoing dialogue instead of precedent. Circumstances change, and so do people, so let your opinions flex as needed.
5. When you disagree, prevent looking for win-loss, I’m right, your wrong outcomes.
6. Don’t discuss areas of needed growth when you’re feeling the stress of an issue. Those conversations tend to turn into unproductive arguments.
7. Dream together. Ask her often what she envisions for your future together. And, be okay if it doesn’t look exactly like what you think it should look like. The Lord has a way of reconciling these things beautifully.
8. Pray with and for each other regularly. Pray for your wife in your private times and out loud when you’re together. Doing this requires that you ask her how she wants you to pray for her and you giving her the same information so she can pray for me.
9. Be proactive in your discussions about sticking subjects like money, sex, parents, parenting differences, etc. These issues can become sinkholes in your marriage if you don’t healthily deal with them.
10. Finally, look for ways to continually serve your spouse. Honestly, Amy is the hardest working person I know though most of it is behind the scenes. So, I try to do things for her without being asked. Help her keep the house clean, clean up after meals, etc. I’m not talking about a reversal of roles. Each couple needs to figure out that for themselves, and there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach. The keys are service and respect.”

I hope this helps some(one).

It’s all how you frame it

This morning I’m thankful for delayed luggage, Virgin Airlines, our son, Nabil, and Southeastern University . Almost three years ago, we flew into NYC for meetings over the New Years holiday. It was warm at home (Amman, Jordan, at that time) but cold in the city, so we packed our warm coats in our luggage. Unfortunately, our bags were delayed in London. We were looking forward to our time in NY, but a couple days of walking the streets of our favorite city in sub-freezing temperatures wasn’t appealing. Virgin Airlines to the rescue (It might have helped that I had a high status as the time due to all of the ministry miles flown each year.). We called them to explain our situation, and without hesitation, they told us to go to a store and buy whatever we needed. So, Amy, Nabil, and Emad wound up with new coats, gloves, and some additional clothing (the one time I was sad my bag arrived!). So, delayed luggage turned into a blessing, and Virgin’s outstanding customer service prevented the stress one expects in situations like this. Nabil is now studying at Southeastern University in Lakeland, FL, so he left his coat at our house. This morning when I took the dog out for an early morning walk in the 17 degree temperatures of Springfield, I gave thanks for all of the above.

Why isn’t it this easy?

Did you ever wish discerning God’s will was this easy? Well, most of us will acknowledge that it’s not always easy, because relationships aren’t always easy. They take time. Time spent with a friend helps you recognize their voice and understand their heart. Time spent with our Father does the same for us.

Joyful Worship and Missions

Joyful worship of the church is the fuel of missions. Joyful worship of the nations is the aim of missions. Joy worship by the nations creates joyful worship in the church which further fuels missions—all to the glory of God!

What is Trust?

What does it mean to be trustworthy? Here’s the best empirically tested definition of trust: “Trust is one party’s willingness to be vulnerable to another party based on the confidence that the latter party is (a) benevolent, (b) reliable, (c) competent, (d) honest, and (e) open.”

My guess is that as you read that your mind went to people or situations in which you felt your trust was violated. The truth is that this has happened to each of us, and it hurts. Of course, there isn’t much we can do with this occurs other than forgive and learn. So, I have broken down the adjectives above as a way for me to assess my “trustworthiness index.” I do better on some than others.

Benevolence is the belief that you have my best interest at heart. Reliability is the belief that you will come through as a promised. Competence is the belief that you have the ability and willingness to complete the task you were assigned. Honesty is the belief that you will use the information to which you are privy in an appropriate manner and do what is ethically right (even if it costs you something). Finally, openness is the belief that you will share accurate information as needed and for my good.

How did you do? “(Love) always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7

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